Well, Dustin and I are over. After a fight that started last night and carried over until 09:00, I decided to end it. I can't be with someone who doesn't accept me the way I am. In short, we had an argument about the karaoke benefit I'm singing at tonight. He said he'd go, then later said he didn't want to go. Okay, that's fine. Our conversation?
Me: If you don't want to go, just tell me, love.
Dustin: I mean, I don't want to go, but I want to see you.
Me: If you don't want to go, then don't go. It's your choice.
Dustin: ....gee, thanks.
Me: I can't make you go, and if you're going to be miserable, then there's no point. It may sound bitchy, but there's no other way to say it. I guess you're not going. I wanted you to, but okay.
Dustin: I stopped wanting to go when you said something bitchy with the excuse that there's no other way to say it.
Me: All I said was if you don't want to go, then don't go.
Dustin: Stop being so aggressive!
Me: If I say what I think, I'm being aggressive and I offend you.
Dustin: I'm more offended if you don't say what you think.
Me: Then I can't win for losing.
Dustin: So what do you want to do?
Me: I think we need to take some time to see if we can even be friends without killing each other.
Dustin: Okay.
I'm not sad about it. If he can't handle me the way I am, it's better to know now. I'm not going to censor myself for anyone. In other news, there's a karaoke benefit for a little boy who was diagnosed with cancer. I hope it goes well! Can't wait to break out my new microphone!
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